It took a while, but I've found them. Welcome to The Quest for the Best, Bluetooth headphones edition.
Here's the first pair I've ever gotten. I give 'em a 3.5. They didn't fit my head very well, and I had to use a headband to keep them pressed into my ears (my head is the size of an eight-year-olds).
+easy to use
+connect to my phone fine
-bad sound quality; very tinny and grainy, not fun to listen to music if your music goes down in quality by 50%
-the small size ear-bud covers DO NOT go on. I tried for almost 30 minutes (and I'm really good at this, cause I've reviewed a ton of these now) but they wouldn't go on.
All in all, they're like, maybe worth $10, but not $30.
These were horrible. bad sound, bad fit, bad controls. then they broke.
The sound quality on these were no good.
I'd recommend these for wearing around the house, listening to audiobooks, etc. they don't get very loud; which is annoying when you're in the gym and don't want to listen to Justin Bieber.
These two from SoundPEATS were pretty good. They're both comfortable, pretty good sound, easy connectivity, and good controls. I use them a lot and am happy with them.
These are the ones I prefer out of all of these. They're comfortable, they have a hook to keep them around the ears, but they're very flexible, so they fit around the ear without putting pressure on.
And the sound quality is awesome!! I love them.