March Roundup and April Goals

It's the last day of March. My wedding is exactly 1 week away.

You will not hear much from me for a while ;)

But here is the roundup for March and a few goals for April!


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April Goals:
  • Get Married
^that's it.

Yeah, like I said, you won't see much of me ;)

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March Roundup

My most popular post and my favorite post happened to be the same this month! My 5 Wedding Survival tips.

Most Popular Posts


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Aphrodisiac Essential Oils
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Activated Charcoal - What's The Big Deal?

Tablecloths for your Home


Most Proud Of

I'm Too Sober For This - An Introvert's Guide to Wedding Survival
Whispers of the Heart


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Freebies and Printables this month



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That's all, folks! What were your favorite posts this month?



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Blog Post Planner - Freebie

How often do you forget to do things when preparing a blog post? Do you have a check-list or planner to keep you on track?



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I know there are a lot of blog post planners out there! So many in fact that yesterday I was looking for the perfect one for me... but I couldn't find it.

So I made my own.

My Wish List - Kitty Edition

We've moved into our new apartment! SQUEEEEE I'm psyched, guys. I love it.

I haven't moved Ariel in yet, but I will after the honeymoon. I want her to love our new home as much as I do!

I was going through Pinterest the other day and noticed just how many cat-themed things I have on my Wish List board (btw Pinterest is a much better vehicle for Wish Lists than Amazon. Just sayin'.)


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For My Kitty
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This Isn't What I Had Planned

It’s 2 o’clock on a Sunday afternoon. I’m sitting on our new (new to us) couch in our new apartment in my pajamas. This morning I woke up without my alarm going off, something I haven’t done in months. I lay in my new (new to me) queen-sized mattress on soft clean sheets with the sun coming through the blinds, listening to birds chirp.

I made a nice breakfast with eggs and cheesy-rosemary bread and peppered bacon, and hot coffee with Irish cream. Lover came over and sat at the table while I cooked, looking like a zombie, but he perked up at the coffee and bacon. After breakfast, we cleaned and chatted, enjoyed a lazy Sunday nap, and he left to go do some work to prepare for the week.

It is now 2 o’clock and I’m sitting on our couch, in my pajamas, cuddled under a seriously soft blanket and watching the birds out our window.

This was not the weekend I had planned.



I Am Way Too Sober For This - How I Survived Wedding Planning

Yeah I know, I'm not even married yet, the wedding is 14 days away (what's that, you want to send us a gift? here ya go). I wanted to share a few tips on how I'm getting through these shenanigans.


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1. Decide what is most important to you, and spend your money there. There are tons of lists and graphs and breakdowns that tell you how much you should spend and what percentage of your budget things should be, but we didn't follow them at all. In a budget of $2500, we spent $1500 of it on our photographer, because that was more important to us than party favors or a DJ or even my dress (which I made).

3 Secrets to Exemplary Baked Goods

I have three rules for Baking.

They have become a special fun saying in my house. I decided I needed some wall art with my rules so I could bestow my wisdom upon you.


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1. Never measure vanilla extract. Vanilla should really be splashed or poured. And when you know, you know. ;)

2. An extra egg yolk never hurt anyone. Want dense rich amazing cake or cupcakes? Throw an extra egg yolk in there. It makes the texture richer.

10 All Natural Cleaning Secrets for your Home

What, you don't like poisoning yourself slowly with chemicals and cleaners? Me neither.

Here is my collection of my favorite DIY Home Cleaning recipes!



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From Don't Waste the Crumbs

Whispers of the Heart - Run To Me

One Sunday, in church, I wrote a song. I was sitting and not really listening, when suddenly certain words and phrases kept hitting me. It was like God was specifically saying "Hold onto this, you're going to need it in your future."

And boy was He right.



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There have been days when I've needed to tell others to run.

There have been days where I needed to heed my own advice and turn from my sin and fall into the arms of my Savior.

There have been days when I felt like I was all alone, and that I was useless and worthless and how could be possibly forgive me.

And there have been days where I've said to myself, "No way, I can't go back to Jesus. I'm too much of a mess."

^Now that's just bad doctrine.

23 Tablecloths You Need For Your Dining Room ASAP

So Lover and I moved into our new apartment... mostly. We have keys and lights turned on, and half our stuff is there, but nobody is living there yet -_- 

One thing we acquired is a beautiful wood dining room table! It's round, but there's a leaf you can insert to make it bigger, and expand (which I think is so cool!)

Now the awesome thing about that is I can start collecting both round and rectangular tablecloths.

So I'm doing a collection of beautiful tablecloths! 

I love tablecloths. In my family, we only used a tablecloth when we had a special occasion like Christmas, or Easter, or guests. so in my mind, they are special beautiful things.

I plan on using them every day, because every meal I get to eat with my Lover is a good one!

So here is my collection of gorgeous drool-worthy tablecloths to make your dining room table that much prettier!




Red is the Rose - Roses, Health, and Freebies

Today Radha Beauty is offering an awesome deal on their Rosewater. What's Rosewater? Oh, I'm so glad you asked!


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So what is Rosewater? It's simple - you soak rose petals in water, and the water pulls all the good stuff out. Then you can put the water on your skin or in your food, and you consume the good stuff.

Now for a limited time, you can get the Rosewater 40% off, bringing it down to less than $6. That's quite a steal! Radha makes some great products.



Okay Haley, what is this "good stuff?" you keep talking about

I'm so glad you asked.

I made you something!



Yes I made another printable! This one is meant to go along side the Lavender one, to be hole-punched and put in a 3-ring notebook. There will be many more to come!

White Smile - the Environmentally and Mouth Friendly toothbrush!

I have highly sensitive teeth and gums to the point where I have to use kid-softness toothbrushes if I don't want my mouth to bleed every time I brush. I also drink 3 cups of coffee a day.

So when I got the chance to review White Smile's special toothbrush I was pretty excited about it!

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White Smile makes a brilliant toothbrush made from Bamboo for the handle, and charcoal bristles. If you bury this toothbrush in the back yard, it'll decompose rather than sit there for years. If you throw it in a fire, it'll burn rather than melt.

It's also surprisingly comfortable! I know what you're thinking: Haley, a toothbrush that's made of charcoal? That's gotta tear up your mouth.

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Nope! I was surprised. I have no clue how they did it, but the bristles are very soft, and don't hurt my gums at all (and like I said above, I have HIGHLY sensitive gums).

The White Smile  set comes with four toothbrushes, each in their own biodegradable box. all four boxes are then put in one larger box. Personally I think the packaging is a bit excessive, but it can also be useful if you're handing them out to various different people, or taking them on a trip.

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Now the only thing you need is some environmentally friendly and healthy toothpaste... oh hey, you can! I've made my own toothpaste that also helps with whitening, you can check it out right here!



Exploring Etsy - Welcome Home

Guess who's moving tomorrow! Yep, Lover and I are officially moving into our new apartment (we marry on the 7th of April. Here's our registry if you'd like to help us out!).

I've been wanting to get rid of some of my crap and clutter and old thrifted furniture for a while... so I've started this collection of gorgeous homegoods. Make sure you follow the Pinterest board for more updates!


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For Your Kitchen
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Personalized Cutting Board by Circle City Design


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Jesus, Babies, and Fishing

I wrote this as a writing assignment in College, and many people really responded positively. I ended up submitting it to a teen literary magazine and got it published!

(and then of course I lost it on my computer somewhere.)

But I just found it on Facebook memories, so I thought I'd share it with you.



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"Can you take me to Waynesville for a dollar and twenty-five cents?"

The woman was no taller than my shoulder, slightly hunched over, had shiny silver hair, and deep wrinkles in her skin. She spoke with a thick southern drawl, testifying her long life in North Carolina.

"To Waynesville from here?... that's two-fifty, ma'am." I said, "Sorry." I looked forward again, not wanting to look at her disappointed face.

"Oh." She said. She didn't leave, though. She looked down towards the bottom corner of her eye, staring at something. Her face was creased with worry. She stood there for a second thinking, then her face brightened.

"Is there anything I can do for you to get two-fifty?"

I sighed. "Ma'am, I'm sorry, there's nothing you can do for me, and there's nothing I can do for you. Now if you'll please step back onto the sidewalk, I need to look available for other people."

"I understand." She sighed. But she hesitated. "It's just that my granddaughter, she's seven? It's her birthday today see. She's seven today. She's such a sweet girl, and pretty too. She looks just like her mother she does, bright green eyes and blonde hair, has her daddy wrapped around her finger. She wants to be a princess when she grows up. But don't all little girls want to be a princess? I wanted to be a princess. I married a farmer. But he was as good a prince as any. Gave me nine babies that man did, and I ate a meal every day of my life. Granted some days we only ate once, but we ate every day. Only six of my babies lived though. Now my oldest daughter, now she is the sweetest thing, nothing at all like her twin brother…"

She went on for another two minutes. Finally I realized she wasn't going to stop, so I might as well drive her and get my dollar and twenty-five cents. I opened the passenger door and helped her in, the whole time she told me about her two oldest twins and how the boy had died at the age of twelve from pneumonia. "Cried and cried I did, until I realized my baby boy was in heaven with Jesus. Do you believe in Jesus?"

"Yes ma'am." I answered, speaking my first words since she'd started her babble.  They weren't true words, but I'd gotten two seconds to speak and I had no regrets.

"He is the way and the truth and the life, He is." She said zealously, nodding at her own conviction.
Then she switched from her children to her congregation. She started talking about the pastor and how wonderful he was, and his sweet wife who was so beautiful even in her old age because she used some special Russian beauty treatment, and the women in her bible study, and the gossip, and the scandal. "see about twenty years ago the church split over a silly argument. We were all so broken and upset, and I asked Jesus, "Jesus? Why'd you let this happen to me? Why did you let this happen to our church"?" she spoke as if she was really asking it, looking up at the ceiling of the cab like she was looking straight up into heaven. She had that creased face of hers pulled up into a pout with her bottom lip sticking out.

"And you know what Jesus said to me?" she looked over at me, waiting for a reply.

"No I don't."

"He said, 'Same reason I took your baby boy.' That's what He said. See, Pastor said that churches are like atoms. They split and that's how they multiply. And I didn't see what that had to do with my baby boy. But I thought about it, and my mind was quite a quick thing back then, and I realized what he meant was, Jesus wanted more babies."

I tried to think of how a church split would give Jesus more babies, but I was coming up blank.

"See my granddaughter, she just got her first Bible in church last week. She had to borrow a Bible from the church and they told her that if she read the whole thing from start to finish, they'd give her her very own. So she did. She sat down every day in church and read as much as she could, and sometimes she'd sneak it into her bag and bring that Bible home—yeah that little thing would steal a Bible even though she knew stealing was wrong, she'd do it because she wanted her own—and she read through that thing so fast that before I could turn around twice through and climb on a chair, she'd finished reading the whole thing. And I can't beat that with a stick. I didn't read a whole Bible through until after I'd been married for twenty-five years!" she exclaimed.

She told me about Susan, her granddaughter, and how beautiful she was, and how eager she was to learn, and it reminded me of Sammy, my boy at home. He would be handsome like his momma. I thought about how much he looked like me, and how he looked up to me and thought I was the best man in the world. He had my dark skin and dark eyes and thick New York accent and wide smile when he wanted to show it off. I tried to remember the last time I'd sat with him, or taken him out fishing, or gone to the movies with him. He was the kind of boy who would like the girl this lady was describing.

Suddenly I really wanted to do exactly what she had done to me; I wanted to tell her everything about my little boy. But more than that I wanted to go home to him. Her telling me all about her family made me run through my memories and miss my boy and my wife and even my mother.

But I kept my mouth shut because I knew whatever I told her she'd probably tell someone else.
She talked more about her granddaughter, and finally we arrived at the address she'd told me. I helped her out and gave her the bag she'd brought. I walked her to the door and she knocked. A little girl answered the door and her eyes grew wide and twinkled when she saw her grandma. She squealed and ran into her arms. The old woman laughed and hugged the little girl and they walked into the little house.

I left without the dollar and twenty-five cents, the whole way home thinking about everything ma'am had taught me in the thirty minute drive about family, and Jesus, and babies, and taking my boy fishing.



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Ta-Da! I made my first printable!

I've made my first printable. It's a double-sided page designed for you to hole punch and put in a binder.

Now why would I do that?


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I'm planning a project.

This is just the beginning. Enjoy, and look for more freebies coming your way soon!



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